To prove at last my main intent Needs no expense of argument, No cutting and contriving- Seeking a real friend we seem To adopt the chymist's golden dream, With still less hope of thriving.
Sometimes the fault is all our own, Some blemish in due time made known By trespass or omission; Sometimes occasion brings to light Our friend's defect long hid from sight, And even from suspicion.
Then judge yourself, and prove your man As circumspectly as you can,
And having made election, Beware no negligence of yours, Such as a friend but ill endures, Enfeeble his affection.
That secrets are a sacred trust, That friends should be sincere and just, That constancy befits them,
Are observations on the case
That savour much of common-place,
And all the world admits them.
But 'tis not timber, lead, and stone, An architect requires alone,
To finish a fine building; The palace were but half complete
If he could possibly forget
The carving and the gilding.
The man that hails you Tom or Jack, And proves by thumps upon your back How he esteems your merit,
Is such a friend, that one had need Be very much his friend indeed, To pardon or to bear it.
As similarity of mind,
Or something not to be defined, First fixes our attention; So manners decent and polite, The same we practised at first sight, Must save it from declension.
Some act upon this prudent plan, Say little, and hear all you can.' Safe policy, but hateful—
So barren sands imbibe the shower, But render neither fruit nor flower, Unpleasant and ungrateful.
The man I trust, if shy to me, Shall find me as reserved as he; No subterfuge or pleading Shall win my confidence again, I will by no means entertain A spy on my proceeding.
These samples-for alas! at last These are but samples, and a taste Of evils yet unmention'd- May prove the task a task indeed, In which 'tis much if we succeed, However well-intention'd.
Pursue the search, and you will find Good sense and knowledge of mankind To be at least expedient, And, after summing all the rest, Religion ruling in the breast A principal ingredient.
The noblest friendship ever shown, The Saviour's history makes known, Though some have turn'd and turn'd it; And whether being crazed or blind, Or seeing with a biass'd mind, Have not, it seems, discern'd it.
O Friendship! if my soul forego Thy dear delights while here below; To mortify and grieve me, May I myself at last appear Unworthy, base, and insincere, Or may my friend deceive me!
COME, peace of mind, delightful guest! Return and make thy downy nest Once more in this sad heart: Nor riches I nor power pursue, Nor hold forbidden joys in view; We therefore need not part.
Where wilt thou dwell, if not with me, From avarice and ambition free, And pleasure's fatal wiles?
For whom, alas! dost thou prepare The sweets that I was wont to share, The banquet of thy smiles?
The great, the gay, shall they partake The heaven that thou alone canst make? And wilt thou quit the stream
That murmurs through the dewy mead, The grove and the sequester'd shed, To be a guest with them?
For thee I panted, thee I prized, For thee I gladly sacrificed Whate'er I loved before;
And shall I see thee start away,
And helpless, hopeless, hear thee say—
Farewell! we meet no more?
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